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A Challenge for Moms

Let me paint you a picture…

It was a hot sunny day and my toddler (under 2 and half years old), my infant (under 6 months old), and I were all tired from playing outside and had come inside for some nice cold water and relaxation on the couch while the fan and breeze from open windows cooled us down. I was holding Moose and Miss Sassy Pants was running around our living room playing and screaming and having a good old time. Eventually, she found one of Moose’s toys that had fallen off his rocker and was playing with it. It was a soft stuffed snail that had a rattle in it and ribbon that was sewn to it with Velcro on the end. Soon, Miss Sassy Pants started playing keep away with me and Moose. She would run over to us, dangle the snail in front of us and I would pretend to try to get it, and when I would miss, she would scream with delight and run away. We did this for quite some time and then I snagged the snail and started playing keep away from her. Eventually this game evolved and I started spinning the snail, letting it wind around my finger, then spinning it the opposite direction it all while Miss Sassy Pants would stick her finger it in causing both her and Moose to giggle. We played this game until daddy arrived home. It wasn’t until later that night, after everyone had gone to bed that I was relaxing on the couch and I thought of this moment we had created that afternoon. It was such a pure moment of mommyhood bliss! I started to tear up when I thought how much fun we had playing a silly little game and that’s when it hit me…. I am finally where I am supposed to be, doing exactly what I am supposed to be doing. I get to be a mommy to two amazing kiddos and a wife to my adorable hubby!

We are so busy making sure our houses are clean, groceries are bought and put away, dinner is ready, paying bills, helping our little ones grow up, and sticking to a schedule that we sometimes forget to stop and enjoy these precious moments that make mommyhood so amazing. I am realizing, only too quickly, how fast time flies. I can’t believe I have a baby and a toddler…I swear, just yesterday I was begging God to grant me a child all while googling what to do about infertility (Infertility…My Journey to Mommyhood coming soon), and that day, I was privileged enough to have a moment with my kiddos. I am very humbled and thankful to my husband for figuring out a way for me to get to stay at home and raise our precious littles.

As life passes by, I am beginning to recognize the importance of these moments and how special they are to enjoy and I am thankful for each and every one of them. These kinds of moments make me realize I was made to be a mom. Every time I hear my name called, or a cry that only I can soothe, or a snuggle meant just for mommy, my heart melts with joy. I will be the first to admit that sometimes these moments get lost in the hustle and bustle of life and the pure exhaustion from being a mom. So today, mommies, I challenge you to throw away your list of to-dos and grab your littles and go make a moment!

Cheers to Mommyhood,
Lisa


9 comments

  1. Brittny says:

    What a great reminder! I love the honesty and the simplicity of such an intimate and totally normal moment that means so much to us moms!.

    • Lisa says:

      Hello B.,

      Thank you! Don’t forget to have your special moments with your little one…they get too big too fast!

      Cheers,
      Lisa

  2. Hello Lisa. I found you on Titus 2 Tuesday. This is beautiful. How I miss those days. I am now a grandmother and am able to hopefully re-live some of that. I hear so much in your voice. I love that you are able to make “mommyhood” your profession. Children need that uninterrupted time with mom to mature and grow. We never know what that time turns into as you so beautifully stated. Good luck with your blog and Etsy shop (I don’t see a link). Read my post for Bloggers it might help as you are starting out. From there you can read “My Fight with the Apron” about when I started staying home. http://www.thelostapron.com/2016/06/blogger-promos.html

    • Lisa says:

      Hi Ana,

      Thank you so much for stopping by and for your sweet comment, I really appreciate it. I feel very blessed to get to stay at home with my kiddos. The Etsy Shop is in progress…I will definitely check out your link!

      Cheers,
      Lisa

  3. I have caught myself being too ‘busy’ for memory making lately and I feel so guilty about it. I just had my third child and I am definitely looking to change my perspective on my priorities. Thanks for the reminder!

    • Lisa says:

      Hi Jessica,

      Congrats on your new arrival! Having a new baby is a legitimate reason to be too busy. Thank you for stopping by!

      Cheers,
      Lisa

    • Lisa says:

      Hi Marissa,

      Thank you for stopping by. I am definitely having a blast being a mommy…everyday is chaotically different!

      Cheers,
      Lisa

  4. Wow, so beautiful and so true! It is so easy to get caught up in our to do list and be slightly irratated with the distractions. I want slow! I want fun with MK before he is all grown. It is so hard at times to find that balance.

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